Tomlin Wilding, Author at Tomlin Wilding
Tomlin Wilding

My name is Tomlin, and I am non-binary
- 18th November 2021 14th November 2022
Coming out as non-binary: the deed poll, the new name, and what changes and what stays the same… Read More My name is Tomlin, and I am non-binary

Counting your blessings
- 21st September 2021 14th November 2022
Mabon, a house full of Covid, and finding something to be grateful for anyway… Read More Counting your blessings

A glossary of terms relating to sex and gender
- 5th September 2021 14th November 2022
Twenty-three terms on sex, gender and attraction, defined plainly, with a note on what will not be tolerated in the comments

Why I am not an “autism parent”
- 5th November 2020 14th November 2022
Why the phrase takes a child’s identity and hands it to the parent, and why the language matters… Read More Why I am not an “autism parent”

I don’t want to belong anymore
- 19th May 2020 14th November 2022
What it costs to keep looking for a community that is not built on sides… Read More I don’t want to belong anymore

Changing The name PDA
- 4th April 2020 22nd February 2023
Why the neurotype is named after one behaviour, and the case for Pervasive Drive for Autonomy… Read More Changing The name PDA

Pathological avoidance is distinct from autistic avoidance
- 23rd February 2020 14th November 2022
Autistic avoidance and PDA avoidance are not the same thing, even though they look alike from outside… Read More Pathological avoidance is distinct from autistic avoidance

The ADHD tax is high
- 22nd February 2020 14th November 2022
The real money neurodivergence costs, and the shame that comes attached to it… Read More The ADHD tax is high

Dear media consumers… STOP
- 17th February 2020 14th November 2022
Caroline Flack, the press, and what all of us paid for… Read More Dear media consumers… STOP
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