My name is Tomlin, and I am non-binary
Coming out as non-binary: the deed poll, the new name, and what changes and what stays the same…
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Counting your blessings
Mabon, a house full of Covid, and finding something to be grateful for anyway…
A glossary of terms relating to sex and gender
This article outlines facts about sex and gender in the simple form of a glossary of relevant terms. Please ask as many genuine questions as you like, but please note tha…
Why I am not an “autism parent”
Why the phrase takes a child’s identity and hands it to the parent, and why the language matters…
I don’t want to belong anymore
What it costs to keep looking for a community that is not built on sides…
Changing The name PDA
Why the neurotype is named after one behaviour, and the case for Pervasive Drive for Autonomy…
Pathological avoidance is distinct from autistic avoidance
Autistic avoidance and PDA avoidance are not the same thing, even though they look alike from outside…
The ADHD tax is high
The real money neurodivergence costs, and the shame that comes attached to it…
Dear media consumers… STOP
Caroline Flack, the press, and what all of us paid for…